July 12, 2009

“Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” Ephesians 4:32

Forgiving is difficult. Your child is dishonest; a friend betrays you; your boss criticizes you in front of others; your husband lies and has an affair. The result? Anger, resentment, fear. And if we aren’t careful, the pain and anger will give way to resentment and bitterness, eventually destroying us if we won’t let go and forgive.

True biblical forgiveness involves applying the grace and forgiveness we receive from Christ to those who’ve hurt us. Forgiveness frees both the unforgiven and the unforgiving. Though trust and confidence may take time, when we genuinely seek out and act upon forgiveness, we allow for healing and provide the foundation for reconciliation in the relationship. When you forgive, you grow in love. You build trust and create opportunities for healing and intimacy. Healthy relationships demand forgiveness.

Is there someone in your life you need to forgive today? God’s dream for your life may be hindered by broken relationships. Set aside the offense and never use it as a weapon against the other person. Show grace and forgive. You’ll be glad you did!

Prayer
Dear Lord, let my hardened heart yield to You and forgive those who have hurt or disappointed me. Ease my fear, sooth my anger. Teach me Your way. Amen.
  • Bible Readings for the Week Ahead:
  • Monday: John 16:22
  • Tuesday: 2 Timothy 1:12-13
  • Wednesday: Job 10:12
  • Thursday: John 14:27
  • Friday: Ephesians 4:26-27
  • Saturday: Isaiah 35:3-6
  • Sunday: Job 22:29